I will use myself as an example.
When I started my coaching journey there were two fundamental skills I had to learn to have an effective coaching session with a client.
1) Actively listening
2) The art of asking questions
These are arguably the most important skills you need to become a masterful coach.
When I started practising my coaching sessions I felt terrified. I would get anxious. I dreaded each session.
I didn’t know what to listen for. I didn’t know what questions to ask. I couldn’t read body language or tonality.
It was challenging.
I kept a coaching log from my very first session to track my hours and progress. And I’m so glad I did. I suggest you keep some form of logbook yourself when developing your craft.
It took me well over 100 hours of practice before I started to feel comfortable coaching.
I am now at a stage where I’ve completed over 500 hours of coaching. I have moved into ‘the cycle of accelerated returns’ phase where I enjoy coaching, I can coach for longer periods and I have more fun and try new things with my coaching!
I am still well off the 10,000 hour mark.
But I will get there in time.
“When you practise and develop any skill you transform yourself in the process. You reveal to yourself new capabilities that were previously latent, that are exposed as you progress. You develop emotionally. Your sense of pleasure becomes redefined. What offers immediate pleasure comes to seem like a distraction, an empty entertainment to help pass the time. Real pleasure comes from overcoming challenges, feeling confidence in your abilities, gaining fluency in skills, and experiencing the power this brings. You develop patience. Boredom no longer signals the need for distraction, but rather the need for new challenges to conquer.”
After being in the coaching, network marketing and online entrepreneur space for almost four years now, what I’ve found is the majority of people don’t commit to mastery.
They give up at the first hurdle or challenge.
Or they get bored having to repeat the same skills again and again and again.
They want to become MASTERS and earn the big money WITHOUT putting in the seven to ten year apprenticeship.
This is a recipe for failure.
If you treat your craft, your pursuit or your new online business with this mindset then you will FAIL.
But if you commit to serving your seven to ten year apprenticeship of your chosen craft or skill set then you will SUCCEED.
You must understand that MONEY always follows SKILLS and PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT.
So what should you do?
Choose a skill or craft that you ENJOY and you want to become a master at.
Forget about the money.
Focus on mastering the skills of your craft.
The money will come later.
I hope this lesson serves you today.
Big Love,
Marshy
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